Please note: this is an archived post from my old blog that I've reposted for enjoyment, I no longer offer hour dates period.
I began escorting in February 2015, and though I offered hour dates most of my clients scheduled longer than that. My very first client date was 3 hours and I was grateful we were able to chat over a glass of wine while getting comfortable. Can you imagine a young, educated but in many ways inexperienced woman who suffered from social anxiety as a kid deciding to become an escort? It's ludicrous. Or is it?
The idea that introversion is an affliction of shyness and social awkwardness is a misnomer. Introverts often struggle with those things, but so do extroverts. Introversion/Extroversion, in the way christener of the concept Carl Jung applied the terms, refers to how an individual is socially energized. Extroverts are stimulated by their external world, introverts by their internal one. This is not to suggest that introverts do not enjoy people, simply that their preferred way of interacting with people is a different sort than social protocol usually facilitates. Thus that kind of interaction can be scarce. Even in personal situations such as going to a party or even Thanksgiving dinner it can be hard to break past polite small talk and truly get to know someone. What I love most about my work is that this veneer of social nicety gets stripped away, and the results are often breathtaking experiences.
So as an introvert, I thrive on intimate, deep connections. This is why I naturally gravitate towards GFE, I love making people feel emotionally secure and confident in themselves. I've found the gentlemen who come to see me don't want to talk about the weather, sports, or celebrities. They want to talk about their lives, passions, and opinions and want to learn about mine. With me, they don't have to be anyone but themselves and their needs and desires can be expressed freely without fear of judgement. Obviously physical pleasure is important, and I LOVE sex. Seriously, it blows my mind sometimes that I get to make a living having my mind blown ;) I believe that rich connections of the mind lead to fun adventures in the sack.
I've found for me to be able to have and give these sorts of experiences, more time is necessary. This is particularly true if we have never met before. Therefore I am instating (actually reinstating with tweaks) a 90 minute date minimum for all first time clients. I have had first time hour encounters I've enjoyed immensely, but usually one of two things happens with hour dates: it goes wonderfully and is hard and awkward to finish on time, or I get gentlemen who I'm not the best fit for and would be better served finding a different provider. Neither situation is ideal, and as you can imagine the latter has lead to some less than awesome ones. Related to that, I've recently had some experiences that have prompted me to adopt a formal cancellation policy. My hope is by writing one it will rarely have to be implemented. I feel it is fair and demonstrates respect for my time and understanding for the circumstances life can create. I have also added a small fee for same day appointments with less than 6 hours notice. Lastly, I want to note I have adjusted my 90 minute rate, and I am happy to see established friends for an hour as well as friends of Taylor Morgan who wish to see us together. My goal is not to attract everyone who can pay for 90 minutes, but to ensure those who come to see me are seeking the same kind of connection I am. Thank you for reading this little rambling missive, I hope it sheds light on my reasoning behind these changes.