Date Etiquette
While I love intrigue, there are some things best not left to the imagination. So, kindly take a few minutes to familiarize yourself with everything on this page before contacting me; I created it so our time together can be about connecting, not protocol :)
Prepare like you would for a date you can’t wait for: shower as soon as close as possible to our start time, brush your teeth, wear something that makes you feel like yourself! If I am coming to you, I will greet you and once we have said our hellos, excuse myself to the restroom. I will expect to find your ID and an unsealed envelope (your favorite book or one from my wishlist is a cute alternative) on the counter with my full patronage inside; I will return your ID after freshening up. If you are coming to me, after greetings place on a nearby table or counter along with your photo ID, then excuse yourself to the restroom to wash your hands. If we are meeting in public, kindly greet me with a hug then present me with a gift bag or card. Patronage is non negotiable, for my time only and should never be brought up outside of electronic payment arrangements. Please do not make me ask for it when we meet, it detracts from the organic nature of our experience.
I can't wait to join you at your hotel or residence in the Atlanta metro area (OTP requires additional travel fee), or host at a convenient location. Dates in the 3+ hour range should include a meal outside the room or room service; happy to play restaurant concierge! I no longer drink alcohol but am a big tea, kombucha, and sparkling water girl if you want to bring a beverage that tickles my fancy. I do not mind if you wish to mindfully drink or consume cannabis products during our date, please refrain from cigarettes or hard drugs. I will leave immediately if I feel you are overly intoxicated or I am made to feel in any way unsafe. Overnights require 7 hours of sleep and 24 hour+ dates require 2 hours to myself per day to recharge my introvert battery.
Communication Etiquette
I operate almost exclusively through email. While I’m excited to learn all about you and love an effusively detailed introduction, kindly keep the bulk of or correspondence to screening and planning matters. The day of our date I will share my phone number for the purpose of communicating logistics unless you'd prefer to correspond via email only. All communication outside of the day of our date should be done via email unless we arrange a chat, I'm a much bigger fan of the occasional "Hey how are you doing?" email than text and check my email much more often. During our time together you’ll find me a pretty open book, but if I feel uncomfortable or am unwilling to answer a question or discuss something I’ll politely let you know. Please let me know if I ask you anything that makes you uncomfy too, communicating your boundaries and respecting mine is the absolute sexiest thing you can do *swoon*
Privacy Etiquette
Any information you share with my before, during and after our date will remain confidential, I expect the same. Please do not share any information I have not made public (i.e. my phone number) with anyone (including other companions) or anywhere online.
Reference Etiquette
If I have seen you 1-2 times I'm happy to vouch for you to other independent professionals for 6 months from our last date. Please email me to let me know who I should be hearing from. If I have seen you 3+ times I will act as a reference for a year from our last date. I do not accept agency references, nor will I act as a reference for one.
Deposit + Cancellation Policy
A deposit is required to get on my calendar: 100 outcall and 300 incall, 200 of which is an additional fee to cover the location. Tour and bring me to you dates require 25% of patronage, plus travel costs for FMTY. Deposits and cancellation fees can be received discreetly electronically or by mail with proper tracking and notice. The full amount can be processed electronically prior to our date for a 5% surcharge, please let me know upon contact if you wish to use this method. As you’ll notice I’m quite understanding of how life gets in the way at times, cancellation fees can almost always be turned into deposits towards a future date. All cancellation fees or deposits must be paid within 24 hours of receiving my confirmation of cancellation and instructions for how to pay. As with most things in life, exhibiting kindness in these matters will get you everywhere, treating me and my business with respect? So hot!
Cancellations 3+ days: Deposit can be applied to date rescheduled within 3 months of cancellation
Cancellations 2 days before: 25% cancellation fee OR 50% deposit for rescheduled date
24 hours before: 50% cancellation fee OR 100% deposit for rescheduled date
Less than 12 hours before/NCNS: 100% fee. Don’t NCNS y’all. It’s very uncool and you’re better than that.
Travel dates: Deposits for dates cancelled at least 1 week in advance will be held for three months less any expenses for a rescheduled date. Tour deposits are nonrefundable unless I cancel.