The Method to the Madness: New Minimum and Cancellation Policy Explained

Please note: this is an archived post from my old blog that I've reposted for enjoyment, I no longer offer hour dates period.


I began escorting in February 2015, and though I offered hour dates most of my clients scheduled longer than that. My very first client date was 3 hours and I was grateful we were able to chat over a glass of wine while getting comfortable. Can you imagine a young, educated but in many ways inexperienced woman who suffered from social anxiety as a kid deciding to become an escort? It's ludicrous. Or is it? 

The idea that introversion is an affliction of shyness and social awkwardness is a misnomer. Introverts often struggle with those things, but so do extroverts. Introversion/Extroversion, in the way christener of the concept Carl Jung applied the terms, refers to how an individual is socially energized. Extroverts are stimulated by their external world, introverts by their internal one. This is not to suggest that introverts do not enjoy people, simply that their preferred way of interacting with people is a different sort than social protocol usually facilitates. Thus that kind of interaction can be scarce. Even in personal situations such as going to a party or even Thanksgiving dinner it can be hard to break past polite small talk and truly get to know someone. What I love most about my work is that this veneer of social nicety gets stripped away, and the results are often breathtaking experiences.

So as an introvert, I thrive on intimate, deep connections. This is why I naturally gravitate towards GFE, I love making people feel emotionally secure and confident in themselves. I've found the gentlemen who come to see me don't want to talk about the weather, sports, or celebrities. They want to talk about their lives, passions, and opinions and want to learn about mine. With me, they don't have to be anyone but themselves and their needs and desires can be expressed freely without fear of judgement. Obviously physical pleasure is important, and I LOVE sex. Seriously, it blows my mind sometimes that I get to make a living having my mind blown ;) I believe that rich connections of the mind lead to fun adventures in the sack. 

 

I've found for me to be able to have and give these sorts of experiences, more time is necessary. This is particularly true if we have never met before. Therefore I am instating (actually reinstating with tweaks) a 90 minute date minimum for all first time clients. I have had first time hour encounters I've enjoyed immensely, but usually one of two things happens with hour dates: it goes wonderfully and is hard and awkward to finish on time, or I get gentlemen who I'm not the best fit for and would be better served finding a different provider. Neither situation is ideal, and as you can imagine the latter has lead to some less than awesome ones. Related to that, I've recently had some experiences that have prompted me to adopt a formal cancellation policy. My hope is by writing one it will rarely have to be implemented. I feel it is fair and demonstrates respect for my time and understanding for the circumstances life can create. I have also added a small fee for same day appointments with less than 6 hours notice. Lastly, I want to note I have adjusted my 90 minute rate, and I am happy to see established friends for an hour as well as friends of Taylor Morgan who wish to see us together. My goal is not to attract everyone who can pay for 90 minutes, but to ensure those who come to see me are seeking the same kind of connection I am. Thank you for reading this little rambling missive, I hope it sheds light on my reasoning behind these changes. 

Ava

Archived Post: Part Time Girlfriend Monthly Arrangements

Happy Sunday everyone, I hope you all are preparing your shopping lists or packing your bags in preparation for Thanksgiving. Or perhaps you are eschewing turkey in favor of pizza or sushi, I've done that in years past. It was awesome, 10/10 would recommend. I wanted to take the opportunity to highlight one of my favorite types of offerings: monthly and extended arrangements. 

Honestly I developed this concept out of my desire to reward and encourage lasting relationships with clients I legitimately enjoy spending time with. Contrary to what you may believe, I do not send a "I had a lovely time, thanks so much and I hope to see you again soon!" note after a date unless I truly want to see you again. Not every gentleman who sees me gets such a message. This isn't necessarily anyone's fault, sometimes people can be perfectly nice but just not click with you. I've been extremely spoiled by the vast majority of men who have chosen to spend time with me in that regard, but I do still get an "off" date on occasion. I feel bad when this happens, and if they ask to see me again I gently decline and try to suggest another companion who might suit them better. Anyway, back to my gentlemen callers I long to see more of: I wanted to create a way to thank you for how much I enjoy your company and support. And so the "Part Time Girlfriend" was born.

Imagine, if you will, a long grueling week at the office. You have a big project your team is behind on, your boss just quit, or you are trying to land a big account. You can't recall the last time you took ten minutes to yourself to relax and not think about work. But lo and behold! It's Friday night, and you have a date, a quiet night in with a lady whose sole focus will be on melting your stress and cares away for the entire evening. You pull up to my apartment, bottle of Malbec and take out in hand and get buzzed in. You take the steps up two at a time and find yourself in front of a familiar door. Standing there in a short, sheer red baby doll teddy and lacy stockings is Miss Ava Raleigh in the flesh. She warmly kisses you and invites you in, getting out the wine glasses and corkscrew. After the wine is poured you two sit on the couch and cuddle as you catch up from the previous week. You vent about work a little, but then Ava mentions an interesting article she read about Victorian nipple piercings (yep, this is really a thing) and soon enough work becomes but a faint memory. Your current reality is far more enjoyable, and you intend to relish every moment of it. As the night wears on, and the food and wine gets consumed, your world narrows down to a fair skinned young lady, insightful beyond her years and with enough passion to fill two lifetimes. As the evening wanes, she kisses you goodbye and you feel a pang of sadness. It dissipates though, as she smiles and wishers in your ear, "until next week, my darling."

To find out more about arrangements and how to make one, please go to my arrangements page

Until next time my lovlies,

Ava

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